A Note from My Guardian Angel

My great epiphany of last week - Give up the fight. I realized that when I am defending/arguing even explaining or justifying really just comes from a need to convince the other person that my way of thinking is right, which actually shows that underneath I feel unsure of my right to have my own opinion or that I doubt myself in some other way. Soooo-- I deducted that by giving up and letting the other person figure out their own moral codes means not to be weak or afraid, it just means I can have more fun and give up the crusade of trying to change the way others see things – i.e. giving them back their responsibility to figure out how to do the right thing, act or respond in the right way etc (and when I say right – I mean right for them – whatever their overall learning experience embraces). This means I am free to “know” my way is right for me. We do not need to carry the moral welfare of others on our shoulders but can sit back gently secure in the knowledge that our intentions are not to harm and are correct for us (from our perspective). Simply - No more self doubt –ever.

We just need to get out there and do our own things – knowing that the right people will be drawn to whatever we all personally have to offer (our personal life path). No need to feel less than anyone ever. A wise woman once told me ‘if it makes your heart sing – do it, if it doesn’t, don’t”

Love L