Intimate Betrayals



One of the worst betrayals anyone can experience is having someone violate your privacy. Whether it's a lover who takes your pictures without your knowledge (what is he going to do with them, and why is he taking them?) or someone else actually having these images in their possession - or worst yet- your trusting someone with them and they using them to earn money - yes, men do that- we certainly live in different times where the fact of the matter is - there are many creeps out there who do this. And they are CREEPS.

This is why I loved this video.  It really brought to light to an issue that has been going on against women and children for too many years now.  There are so many men out there who say that they are down for women's issues - or talk the race talk about how down they are for the Black woman - but in intimate relations reveal the true extent of their brokenness.

farvel,
Lesley-Ann

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